My Place

It's a rare quiet day. I am stocking up on strength for this week's job: tomorrow I'll travel to St. Gallen and stay there until Saturday. My aunt has miraculously recovered and is getting stronger by the day. Her mind has cleared, she is again walking and she is actively participating in her imminent move to the retirement home. She still is in the hospital, taking advantage of the good care she is getting there, the physical therapy, the well-balanced meals, the adjusted meds. Her breathing is the best it's been since I arrived in Switzerland and her anxiety level has decreased accordingly. She definitely is strong enough to avoid the nursing home and is therefore moving to the retirement home in her neighborhood where her friends and neighbors will easily be able to visit. She is actually looking forward to it. The situation couldn't be any better. I have been visiting her once a week, each time also going to her apartment to check the mail and make phone calls to deal with her impending move. I have visited the retirement home, talked to the director, seen her banking advisor. Her friends are a great support, also for me, giving me rides, inviting me for meals when I stay overnight. The moving van arrives tomorrow afternoon, on Wednesday we move her, and then my sisters and I have another 3 days to clear out her apartment. It will be hard to leave her, but right now I feel that she is doing so well that she'll live to be 100 and I am confident that I'll see her again.

Oops... got carried away... It is true that my aunt is front and fore in my mind. When I return from St. Gallen on Saturday I'll have just one more week in Switzerland and will have to deal with my own move back to the US, the sorting and shipping of my goods. I was hoping to surf the internet to find a car to purchase upon my arrival in Portland, but obviously I didn't have the means nor the time to do that and so will have to deal with it when I arrive.

The last 3 weeks have been a mixture of sad, emotional, but also warm, fun and rewarding times. My aunt's illness has been difficult for me, both from an emotional and a logistical point of view. My body paid the price for the tension, and I had to add Neuchatel to the list of places in the world where I had to find a chiropractor. As always, she did her magic and I am now pain free. These people are the best!

Also among the best is the Aubert family with whom I am staying. They are letting me stay in a huge room where I am very comfortable. They are increasingly feeling like family. I am free to come and go as I please, there never is any pressure to stay or to go. I am welcome at the family table whenever. I am invited to go out with them, or to stay when they have guests. In addition to generous and healthy meals, they provide counseling and moral support. I am also getting to know them better. I am contributing when and where I can. Several times I acted as a patient for daughter Carole's practice for her finals for medical school. I spent a morning translating cases from her English book so that non-English speaking friends could also be mock patients. It is a pleasure to observe how well father and daughter are working together - first Jacques, the father, with his own GP practice helping her with the exercises for her finals, and now the daughter, who tomorrow night after the last exam will be legally allowed to practice medicine, helping Dad in his office while he is hobbling around on crutches after breaking a leg in a biking accident...

Unfortunately I still can't post pictures to this blog, since I cannot download them from my camera onto someone else's computer. Perhaps I'll retroactively add some pics to the posts once I am in New York. I can already see that my stay in New York will be way too short. I can't wait to be sailing past the Statue of Liberty on my majestic ocean liner, and to be greeted by Eric at the harbor!

Since a picture is worth a thousand words, and since there won't be any pictures for now, I am condemned to write. The weather has been mostly good since my last post and there have been many pleasant hours in beautiful areas in great company: Eliane took me swimming in Lake Neuchatel of which the temperature had risen to 23 C (73 F). When I was a kid we were not allowed to swim in the lake because it was too polluted. Swimming pools had been built here and there on the shore. They are now all gone, because the water, thanks to sewage treatment plants, is once more clear and absolutely safe.

Anne-Marie took me on another great hike, near Interlaken. We gained most of the elevation with a cable car, and before starting off, enjoyed a coffee in the garden of one of these mountain restaurants, with views over to the Bernese Alps, Interlaken, the lakes of Thun and Brienz... all just like on the postcard. I traveled to Basel, where I had not been since I was 16 years old. There I visited friend Denise with whom I had worked in the early 70s in Geneva. We had taken several trips together, Spain, Algeria, Greece... and now had 35 years worth of catching up to do. She showed me the old part of Basel, a very beautiful city, but we spent most of our precious time together on her deck, chatting. It is so rewarding to reconnect with friends when they have had a good life, and are well and happy. Basel is a very rich city, where several Swiss pharmaceutical companies have their headquarters, and as a consequence has a number of famous museums... none of which I had the time to visit.

Periodically I am seeing my sisters, one, or the other, or both, here in Le Landeron, or in the mountains. It is always fun and warm and I will miss them terribly when our ways will part once again. Brigitte and I finally managed to go on a good hike together, catching a nice day. There have been a number of spectacularly violent thunder storms, with dramatic drops in temperatures and fresh snow almost down to the tree line. I experienced one of these storms in the tiny chalet of friend Pierre, above Neuchatel. Thank God for stringent construction codes. Sheets of rain were blown across the porch, lightning crisscrossing the sky turned dark way before nightfall. An impressive show. The storms have ushered in fall. The forest has started to turn, the yellow jackets are out in droves. The light has a new softness - which I enjoyed all day Saturday hiking with Pierre along the Doubs, the river marking the border north of Neuchatel between Switzerland and France. Numerous herons, swans, king fishers, a peregrine falcon, fish jumping. This is the Jura, less dramatic than the Alps, but dearly loved and appreciated by us, the locals. Pasture land cut into sections by stone walls, dotted with the characteristic huge hemlocks.

Next picture: a trip to the Geneva area, a lovely day with Paul, taking the boat over to the medieval city of Yvoire on the French side, and saying goodbye. Our paths had crossed once again after meeting in Canada 35 years ago, and now life is again taking us back to our respective countries, he to Canada, I to the US. We were at opposite ends of the country and didn't see each other often, but during the difficult months when I as slaving away at the bakery, he was a skype lifeline.

Last but not least, yesterday, a rainy day with Christiane and Gilbert. Picnic on a bench a mere 5 minutes from the car just before it started to pour for good, and then the afternoon in the museum Latenium, which didn't exist when I was a kid. During the construction of the freeway they found innumerable artifacts from life along the lake dating back several thousands of years. Christiane, a retired teacher, did a great guiding job, picking out the key information, explaining...

Almost 40 years ago I left Neuchatel in search of new horizons, finding Neuchatel boring, attracted by exotic landscapes and cultures. I have never spent as much time in the Neuchatel area since I was 19, and now I am discovering that this actually is not only a very beautiful area, but also very rich in history, culture, arts, as well as in smart, educated, interesting and dedicated people helping the region flourish. I could have found right here what I went searching all over the world.